Monday, May 16, 2016

A letter to my lab, on our 6th lab birthday

May 10, 2016

Dear Lab,

Yesterday I learned that I was promoted to Associate Professor with tenure.  I have been thinking, since that time, about how to tell you.  It seemed a bit tacky to just send an email.  And I didn’t want to steal the thunder from our reunion/goodbye lunch this Friday.  I also didn’t want you to hear it from someone else.  In the end, I thought I’d sit down and write you a letter, on this Tuesday morning when I surprisingly have nothing scheduled.  You may remember that I was once an English major, and so I do things like this: write letters, try to mark occasions that may mean something to me in the longer arc of my life.  You will have to bear with me and try not to laugh before you get to the end.

I have been reflecting on what this promotion means in my world, in my life.  It does not mean as much as it would had I stayed in the humanities – most tenured English professors have guaranteed salaries forever, and they do not need hundreds of thousands of dollars a year to run their labs, so an English professor with tenure is pretty much free to do whatever he or she wants from that point onwards.  It means considerably more than promotion to associate professor if I were purely a clinician – for most clinicians, a change in rank is a mark of honor, with few tangible benefits.  The tangible benefits that I garner, as a tenured professor in a medical school, are the guarantee of some salary support (maybe 1/3 of my actual salary) as well as the assurance that I cannot be fired. 

The major benefits are less tangible.  What I gain, more than anything else, is the assurance that what I do is valued.   I know this both because I was tenured at all and because I was tenured early, before the institution was up against a wall to decide whether they wanted to keep me or not.  What I also gain is the assurance that the way I do what I do is perfectly fine.  The latter is important because I am increasingly realizing that it is unusual to be a female physician-scientist with a bench lab and a young family.  I have somehow been extremely late to realize how unusual this is, maybe because I would never have guessed, in my 20s, that I would have either a bench lab or children, maybe because I spend most of my time thinking about specific things, like how to make an assay work.  I think in some ways my NOT realizing that this was an unusual situation freed me.  I have always been pretty open about my clinical life and my family life in my main (scientific) life.  I never expected this to impact anyone’s estimation of what I could do scientifically, and, maybe more importantly, I value authenticity very much.  As such, an incremental boost to my career success was not important enough to me to “hide” other important parts of my life.  You are my lab, and we spend a lot of time together, so you know that I am a generally optimistic (perhaps unrealistically optimistic) person.  However, even someone with this kind of disposition has to wonder sometimes whether attending poster sessions at conferences with either a 7yo kid (reading a book) or a 1yo kid (worn) in tow has adversely affected my career, so this promotion is reassuring in that regard.  

The overwhelming feeling I have had since yesterday, though, is not one of pride, or of reassurance.  It is one of gratitude.  I am grateful to the senior faculty, including my previous mentors, for the ways that they have supported me, and encouraged me, and kicked me in the rear every once in a while.  I am grateful to Josh, my partner now for more than 20 years, for innumerable things including, but not limited to, tearing apart my first grant, understanding what it’s like to love learning new things, changing himself so that our ideal of a marriage of equals could translate into all the mundane things – the making of kid lunches, the attendance at school field trips – that make such a marriage work in real life. 

Most of all, I am grateful to you.  Because you are the reason I have been successful.  Your ideas, your hard work, your decision to vote with your feet and join me, your forbearance when I am overly critical, your energy and your endless spirit of inquiry are the lifeblood of the lab.  They are why the lab can do so much of what it can do, and they are why a conversation with one of you is almost always the best part of my workday. 

I don’t like generalities – they always sound empty to me – so here is what I really mean by these overly-general statements. 

Thank you for showing our lab how to manipulate neurons (Jo Busch) and how to take gorgeous pictures of them (Emily Bill), how to manage a first student (Emily Ashbridge), how to do stereotactic animal surgery (Tyler Skrinak), how to do rodent behavioral studies (Rakshita Charan), how to use viral vectors (Defne Amado), how to use Python (Marijan Posavi), how to launch a biomarker discovery effort (Judy Qiang), how to build it into something that involves a national consortium (Chris Swanson), how to manage a biofluid bank (Jordan Mak), how to develop classifiers (Ben Liu) and how to apply them (Yosef Berlyand), how to plunder existing large datasets (Nick Lim), how to close the deal on papers that persist after a student has left (Ryan Cherng), how to take constructive criticism and use it to fuel ambition (Fortunay Diatta), how to learn to do everything and anything as an undergrad (Nimansha Jain), how to never let them see you sweat even when your unpublished result is somehow in the Inquirer (Christine Cooper), how to actually do precision medicine (Tom Tropea), how to do ChIP-seq (Pierce Nathanson), how to perform chromosome conformation capture (Mike Gallagher).   In his own sentence, because the number of things he has done for the lab is innumerable, is Travis Unger, who, among other things, has shown everyone else in the lab how to manage me.

Some of you have left, and some of you are leaving soon.  So this also gives me the chance to tell you that I so value the ways that you have kept in touch.  I will have your back, always.   

Our lab is exactly six years old today.  Happy birthday to us.  Don’t make too much fun of me for writing this.  But stop me if you think that my posting this on our lab website is a terrible idea.  And clear your Friday afternoon, because I suspect that at lunch, there will be much drinking. 

With my gratitude and affection,

Alice

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